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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Sistem Pembahagian Faraid

Faraid Law

Note: To use this table, the reader should first ascertain whether the deceased left a wife or husband, and if she or he survived, should look under the appropriate heading. Only in default of either should search be made under “sons and daughters”, “father and mother” and the rest, and then in the order given in the first margin. In each instance it is supposed that there are no nearer relations than those named.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

WIFE:

Wife and no relations ¼ to wife, ¾ to the Bait-ul-mal(1)

Wife and son (sons) 1/8 to wife, rest to son (sons equally)

Wife, son and daughter 1/8 to wife, 7/12 to son, 7/24 to daughter (2)

Wife, two sons and two daughters 1/8 to wife, 7/24 to each son and 7/48 to each daughter. (2)

Wife and one daughter 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter and 3/8 to Bait-ul-mal.

Wife and daughters 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters and 5/24 to Bait-ul mal

Wife, daughter and one son’s son (h.l.s.) 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter, rest to son’s son

Wife, daughters and one son’s son (h.l.s.) 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally, rest to son’s son

Wife, daughter, one son’s son and one son’s daughter 1/8 to wife, 1/3 to daughter, ¼ to son’s son and 1/8 to son’s daughter. (3)

Wife, daughter and son’s daughters 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughters equally and rest to the Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, daughters and one son’s daughter 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to Bait-ul-mal

Wife, daughter and three full brothers 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughters, 1/8 to each brother.

Wife, daughters and two paternal uncles 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and 5/48 to each uncle.

Wife, daughters and four true grandmothers 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and 1/6 to the grandmothers equally and the rest to the Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, son and father (h.h.s.) 1/8 to wife, ¼ to father, rest to son.

Wife, daughter and mother 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to mother and ½ to daughter. Rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, daughters, father and mother 3/27 to wife, 4/27 each to father and mother, 16/27 to daughters (4)

Wife, father and mother ¼ to wife, ½ to father and ¼ to mother (5)

Wife, four full brothers and two full sisters ¼ to wife, 6/40 to each brother and 3/40 to each sister. (6)

Wife, four true grandmothers and two paternal uncles ¼ to wife, 1/24 to each grandmother and 7/24 to each uncle.

Wife, mother and true grandmother ¼ to wife, 1/3 to mother and the residue 5/12 to true grandmother.

Wife, mother, full sister, uterine brother and sister, consanguine brother and consanguine sister 3/15 to wife, 2/15 to mother, 6/15 to full sister and 4/15 equally between the uterine brother and uterine sister. The consanguine brother and consanguine sister get no shares. (7)

Wife, mother, two sons 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to mother and residue 34/48 equally to sons

Wife, daughter, two paternal uncles 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter and the residue 6/16 to the uncles equally.

Wife, uterine sister, four sons of brother, son of uncle 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to uterine sister and the residue 28/48 to the sons of brother equally. Son of uncle gets nothing.

Wife, mother, sister 3/13 to wife, 4/13 to mother and 6/13 to sister. (7)

Wife, mother, 2 sisters 3/13 share to wife, 2/13 share to mother and 8/13 shares to sisters equally. (7)

Wife, two daughters, fathers mother 1/8 to wife, 2/3 equally to daughters, 1/6 to mother and the residue 1/24 to Bait-ul mal.



(1) Re Mutchilim [1960] M.L.J. 25.

(2) The daughters in such case being residuaries with the son.

(3) The son’s daughters being residuary with the son’s son.

(4) An example of the doctrine of aul or increase.

(5) The mother gets 1/3 of ¾ (that is after deducting the wife’s share). This follows a decision of the Caliph Umar.

(6) The brothers and the sisters are residuaries.

(7) An example of aul.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

HUSBAND:

Husband and no relation ½ to husband and balance to Bait-ul-mal

Husband and son (sons) ¼ to husband, rest to son (sons equally).

Husband, son and daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to son, ¼ to daughter.

Husband, two sons and two daughters ¼ to husband, ¼ to each son, 1/8 to each daughter.

Husband and one daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and rest to State.

Husband and daughters ¼ to husband, 2/3 to the daughters and rest to State.

Husband, daughter and one son’s son (h.l.s.) ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and rest to son’s son.

Husband, daughters and one son’s son ¼ to husband, 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/12 to son’s son (h.l.s.)

Husband and father ½ to husband and ½ to father.

Husband, daughter, one son’s son and one son’s daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 2/12 to son’s son and 1/12 to son’s daughter. (8)

Husband, daughter and three full brothers ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, rest to brothers equally.

Husband, daughters and two paternal uncles ¼ to husband, 2/3 to daughters equally and 1/12 to uncles equally.

Husband, daughter and true grandmothers ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to grandmothers equally. Rest to State.

Husband, son and father (h.l.s.) ¼ to husband, 1/6 to father, rest to son.

Husband, daughter and father ¼ to husband, ½ to daughters, rest to father.

Husband, daughters and mother 3/13 to husband, 2/13 to mother, 8/13 to daughters equally. (9)

Husband, daughters, father and mother 3/15 to husband, 8/15 to daughters and 2/15 each to father and mother. (10)

Husband, daughter, mother, father, son’s son and son’s daughter 6/13 to father, 3/13 to husband, 2/13 to mother and 2/13 to father. The son’s son and son’s daughter are excluded. (10)

Husband, daughter and paternal uncle ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and ¼ to paternal uncle.

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter and two full sisters ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter and 1/12 share equally to sisters. (11)

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter, one full sister and one consanguine sister ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter and 1/12 to full sister. Consanguine sister gets nothing. (11)

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter, two uterine sisters ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter. Residue to Bait-ul-mal.

Husband, daughter, father, mother, son’s son and son’s daughter 3/13 to husband, 6/13 to daughter, 2/13 each to father and mother. (10)

Husband, father and mother ½ to husband, 1/6 to mother, rest to father. (12)

Husband, father, mother and two daughters 3/15 share to husband, 2/15 to father, 2/15 to mother and 8/15 to daughters equally. (10)

Husband, mother and three full sisters ½ to husband, 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to sisters equally.

Husband, mother, full sister, consanguine sister 3/8 to husband, 1/8 to mother, 3/8 to full sister, 1/8 to consanguine sister. (10)

Husband, two full brothers and three full sisters ½ to husband, 2/14 to each bother and 1/14 to each sister.(13)

Husband, mother, full brother and two uterine sisters ½ share to husband, 1/6 to mother and the balance of 1/3 between the two uterine sisters and the full brother. (14)

Husband and daughters of two daughters ½ to husband and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Husband, mother, sister and grandfather Husband 3/9, mother 2/9 sister 4/27, father’s father 8/27. (15)

Husband, mother, grandfather, one consanguine brother, one or more uterine brothers. Husband ½, mother 1/6, grandfather 1/6, consanguine brother 1/6, uterine brother excluded. (16)



(8) The son’s son and son’s daughter are residuaries.

(9) Example of aul or increase.

(10) Examples of aul or increase

(11) In these cases the daughter and son’s daughter get their Quranic shares while the sister takes as residuary.

(12) The mother gets 1/3 of ½ (that is after deducting the husband’s share).

(13) The brothers and sisters are residuaries.

(14) This is the case of himariyya or musharaka. The full brother and the uterine sisters share the 1/3 share. See Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law p.135 and Nawawi Supra, p.250.

(15) This is the case of Al-akdariya – see Tyabji Muhammadan Law (3rd Edn.) p.874 and Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law p.128 and Nawawi p.253 Supra, (p.22 supra)

(16) This is the case of al-Malikia – see Fitzgerald p.128.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

SONS AND DAUGHTERS:

One son and no other relations All to son

One daughter ½ to daughter and rest to State.

Daughters 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to State

Sons and daughters Equally between all sons and daughters, but so that the share of each son is double that of each daughter.

One son and son’s son or son’s daughters All to son.

One son and father (or mother) 1/6 to father (or mother) rest to son.

One son, father and mother 1/6 to each father and mother, rest to son.

One daughter and son’s son ½ to daughter, rest to son’s son

One daughter, son’s son and son’s daughter ½ to daughter, 2/6 to son’s son and 1/6 to son’s daughter

Daughters and son’s son 2/3 to daughters equally, rest to son’s son

One daughter, one son’s daughter, and one full brother ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter, rest to full brother.

Daughters, one son’s daughter and one full brother 2/3 to daughter and rest to full brother.

Daughters and son’s daughters 2/3 to daughter and rest to Bait-ul-mal (son’s daughters excluded unless there is a lineal male descendant of the same or lower degree).

Daughter and father ½ to daughter and ½ to father (1/6 as Quranic heir and 1/3 as agnatic heir).

Daughters and father 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to father

Daughters, son’s daughters and father 2/3 to daughter, rest to father. (17)

One daughter, father and mother ½ to daughter, 1/6 to mother, rest to father

One daughter, mother, four full brothers ½ to daughter, 1/6 to mother, 1/12 to each brother.

One daughter and mother ½ to daughter, ¼ to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Daughters and mother 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/5 to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Daughters, father, mother and son’s son 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/6 each to father and mother, nothing to son’s son there being no residue.

Daughters and four paternal uncles 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/12 to each uncle

Daughter (son’s daughter) and full (consanguine) sister ½ to daughter (son’s daughter) and ½ to full (consanguine) sister.

Daughters (son’s daughters) and full (consanguine) sisters 2/3 to daughters (son’s daughter), and 1/3 to full (consanguine) sister.

Daughters, four true grandmothers and six paternal uncles 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/6 to grandmothers equally (i.e. 1/24 each) and 1/36 to each uncle.

Two daughters, one consanguine sister, one brother’s son 2/3 to two daughters and 1/3 to sister. Brother’s son gets nothing

Two daughters, a son’s daughter and a son’s son 2/3 to daughters, 1/9 to son’s daughter and 2/9 to son’s son. (18)

Two daughters, a son’s daughter and a son’s son’s son 2/3 to daughters, 1/9 to son’s daughter and 2/9 to son’s son. (18)

Two daughters of a son, daughter of son’s son, son of son’s son’s son’ 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/9 to daughter of son’s son and 2/9 to son of son’s son’s son. (20)

Son’s daughter, daughter’s son and brother ½ share to son’s daughter and ½ share to brother. Daughter’s son gets nothing.

Son’s sons and son’s daughters (of same degree) Equally between son’s son and son’s daughters but so that the share of each of the former is double of each of the latter. (19)

Son’s daughters and son’s son’s son 2/3 to son’s daughters, rest to great-grandsons equally

Son’s daughter and son’s son’s daughter ½ to son’s daughter and 1/6 to son’s son’s daughter and the rest to the Bait-ul-mal. (20)



(17) There is a doubt whether the son’s daughters (who are excluded as Quranic heirs) are nevertheless entitled to take as residuaries together with the agnatic ascendant or collateral. See Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law, p.124.

(18) In all these cases, as there are two daughters the son’s daughter cannot inherit as Quranic heir. She therefore takes as an agnatic heir and shares the residu with the lower son’s son.

(19) The son’s daughter is a residuary with an equal son’s son.

(20) As there is a “nearer” daughter, the share of the son’s son’s daughter is 1/6 that is the remainder of the 2/3 share of daughters.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

FATHER AND MOTHER:

Father and no other relations All to father.

Father and mother 2/3 to father, 1/3 to mother

Father, full brothers and sisters All to father.

Father, mother, three son’s daughters 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother and 2/3 to three son’s daughters in equal Shares.

Father, mother, daughter, four son’s daughters 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother, ½ to the daughter and 1/6 to the son’s daughters in equal shares.

Father, mother, two son’s daughters and son’s son’s daughter 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother and 2/3 to son’s daughters in equal shares. The son’s son’s daughter is excluded by the two son’s daughters.

Father, mother, son’s daughter, son’s son’s daughter 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother, ½ to son’s daughter and 1/6 to son’s son’s daughter (the son’s daughter and son’s son’s daughter share the Quaranic share of two or more daughters).

Mother and no other relations 1/3 to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Mother, and full brothers 1/6 to mother, rest to brothers equally.

Mother, full brother and uterine brother 1/3 to mother, 1/6 to uterine brother, rest to full brother.

Mother and full sisters 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to sisters equally and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Mother, full sister, and consanguine brother and sister 1/6 to mother, ½ to full sister, rest to consanguine brother and sister but so that the former receives double the share of the latter.

Mother, full sisters, consanguine brother and sister 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to full sisters equally, rest as in preceding case.

Mother, two full sisters, a consanguine sister and a uterine sister (or brother) 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to equally among the sisters, and 1/6 to the uterine sister or brother (the consanguine sister is excluded by two full sisters).

Mother, consanguine sisters and uterine sister 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to consanguine sisters equally, 1/6 to uterine sister.

Mother and paternal uncles 1/3 to mother, 2/.3 to paternal uncles equally.





Makan Hati

Surah Al-Kautsar

Surah ini paling pendek, hanya mengandungi 3 ayat & diturunkan di Makkah dan bermaksud sungai di syurga. Kolam sungai ini diperbuat daripada batu permata nan indah dan cantik.

 
Rasanya lebih manis daripada madu, warnanya pula lebih putih daripada susu dan lebih wangi daripada kasturi.

Surah ini disifatkan sebagai surah penghibur hati Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. kerana diturunkan ketika baginda bersedih atas kematian 2 orang yang dikasihi iaitu anak lelakinya Ibrahim dan bapa saudaranya Abu Talib.

Pelbagai khasiat terkandung di dalam surah ini dan boleh kita amalkan:-

1 ) Baca surah ini ketika hujan dan berdoa, mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t. makbulkan doa kita.

2) Jika kita kehausan dan tiada air, bacalah surah ini dan gosok di leher, Insya'allah hilang dahaga.

3) Jika sering sakit mata, seperti berair, gatal, bengkak, sapukan air mawar yang sudah dibacakan surah ini sebanyak 10x pada mata.

4) Jika rumah dipercayai terkena sihir, baca surah ini 10x, mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t. bagi ilham pada kita dimana letaknya sihir itu.

5) Jika membacanya 1 ,000x rezeki kita akan bertambah.

6) Jika rajin membacanya, hati kita akan menjadi lembut dan khusyuk ketika menunaikan solat.

7) Jika orang teraniaya dan terpenjara membacanya sebanyak 71 x, Allah s.w.t. akan memberikan bantuan kepadanya kerana dia tidak bersalah tetapi dizalimi.



KungFu Panda

Lepas settle gulung & selamatkan Popia..
Aku bergegas ke Jusco Tebrau City tuk movie..
KungFu Panda..

Beratur punye beratur..
Full House..
Ngan raw paling depan..
Mendongak..
Tak pun tgk midnite..

Yang cakap tak bleh..
Tengak esok jer... (arini lah)

Sebelom kejadian.... (tak der tiket)



Selepas kejadian...
Kene blanjer Mia eskrim..
Tutup case ari nie..



Kami orang dewasa yang kecewa...
Terpaksa disembunyikkan rupanye..
:-(

Popia Cute

Bebual-bual ngan Shima kat Diva2..
Shima cakap nak jual Popia Goreng..
Terus rasa nak menjejes air liur aku...
Ngan pantas aku call Yang suh belikan sayur inti popia..
Termasuk sekali kulit popia..
Kalo tak aku gulung ngan kulit perut aku yang extravaganza nie..
Huh...

Blek kijer aku terus menuju ke dapor..
Masak inti popia.. gulung..
Masak sambal cicah..
Goreng...

Jemput tengok....


Melecet plak Popia Cute nih..
Penuh sangat filling nye..


Mission accomplish..
Burrrppp... Alhamdullilah...

Duit Karen

Tarif elektrik naik 1 Jun ini, 75 peratus tidak terjejas


30/05/2011 7:28pm



PUTRAJAYA 30 Mei – Kerajaan hari ini mengumumkan purata tarif elektrik akan dinaikkan sebanyak 2.23 sen kilowatt sejam (kWj) atau 7.12 peratus kepada 33.54 sen/kWj daripada 31.31 sen/kWj, berkuat kuasa Rabu ini, 1 Jun ini.

Ini adalah sebagai sebahagian daripada proses merasionlisasikan subsidi yang sedang dilaksanakan.

Bagaimanapun, kerajaan berkata, langkah berkenaan tidak akan menjejaskan 75 peratus atau 4.4 juta daripada 5.94 juta pengguna domestik yang menggunakan kurang daripada 300 kWj sebulan.

Ini bermakna pengguna yang menggunakan sehingga 300 kWj elektrik di mana bil mereka berjumlah RM77, tidak perlu membayar lebih.

Tarif elektrik dinaikkan kerana harga gas asli yang merupakan sumber utama penjanaan elektrik telah meningkat dengan ketara di pasaran antarabangsa.

Pengumuman berkenaan dibuat pada sidang akhbar bersama oleh Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Tan Sri Nor Mohamed Yakcop; dan Menteri Tenaga, Teknologi Hijau dan Air, Datuk Seri Peter Chin Fah Kui. – Bernama

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Belom lagi 1 June aku dh terperanjat nengok bil karen aku...!!!
Nie angkara bil pos bulan lepas ar nie.. main estimated2 jer..
Bulan nie... ?????
 


Aku dah bayar lah....!!!!

 
Huh...

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Aku Tanya.. Dia Jawab..

JANGAN MENGELUH ..........



Kita selalu Bertanya....................dan Al-Quran sudah menjawabnya.................



KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU DIUJI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," ("I am full of faith to Allah") sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar dan, sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg dusta."
-Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3


KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU TAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesua tu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216






KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286



KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA RASA FRUST?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Jgnlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan jgnlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu org2 yg beriman."
- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139



KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah (be fearfull of Allah The Almighty) kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan)."



KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk"
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45



KITA BERTANYA : APA YANG AKU DAPAT DRPD SEMUA INI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari org2 mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga utk mereka... ?
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 111



KITA BERTANYA : KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain dari Nya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal."
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 129



KITA BERKATA : AKU TAK DAPAT TAHAN!!!


QURAN MENJAWAB


"... ..dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa dr rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dr rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."
- Surah Yusuf ayat 12


Kalu engko nak mengeluh lagi ............jom gi ngaji










Mia EXAM lagi

Semalam.. Ari nie.. Esok..
24,25 & 26 May 2011
Mia EXAM..
Semesta kedua katanya..

Expectation Momy..

* mestilah nak Mia dapat buat betul2
* mestilah nak Mia dapat 'full' mark
* mestilah nak Mia dapat first place
* mestilah nak yang best2 dari Mia

Reality perasaan Momy..

* apa kah Mia bole jawab exam...??
* paham ke Mia ngan soklan2 exam tue..??
* tau ke Mia yang dia betul2 tgh EXAM..??
* pandai ke Mia dengar arahan tanpa supervise dr teacher..??
* oh.. My Sponggy Big Baby.. hurmmm

People serounding says to Momy..

* let her have fun..
* what do you expect 4years kids yg blom cukup 4years bole beat 5 & 6 years kids..??
* let her learn the term of 'EXAM' only..
* "Doa" kan Mia..
* cutenye dgr Mia ada EXAM..
* kelakarnye... EXAM...
* hahahaha

So... What can I says and Expect..??

~ Semoga Allah permudahkan segalannya untuk Mia ~

[Semalam MakTok Lala datang,dia ckp dia doakan jugak tuk Mia senang jawab exam.. tapi pas tue dia gelak... erkhhh..]

Banyak yang Annoying but not 'THIS' one..

Tajuk yang sangat panjang..
Email aku selalu sangat disinggahi pelbagai email...
Antaranya berdebat pasal politik lah.. jawatan kosong lah.. sembang kosong lah..
Hurrrmmm...
Aku penah dapat yang sangat annoying pada aku..
Cam nie munyiknye...
'Saya nak beli aircon.. bole bg pendapat..'
Alololololo... rs aku nak tampa laju2 jer...

Tapi... ari nie aku suka this email...

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Seni Merawat Pernikahan


By : M. Agus Syafii

Ketika menjelang pernikahan, biasanya keluarga besar nampak heboh, sibuk menyiapkan pesta pernikahan, terpukau dalam gebyar pesta namun tenggelam setelah perjalanannya, pernikahan tidak terawat dengan baik. Akhirnya cinta itu memudar, kasih sayang menjadi hilang. Pernikahan menjadi hambar. Bahkan ada seorang suami yang bertutur, 'Mas Agus Syafii, diawal pernikahan saya sangat mencintai istri saya tetapi setelah menjalani 15 tahun pernikahan, saya lebih senang dalam kesibukan daripada berdua sama istri. Inilah salah satu contoh pernikahan yang tidak pernah terawat selama bertahun-tahun sehingga bukan hanya menjadi tidak indah lagi pernikahannya namun juga bisa saling melukai pasangan.

Menurut al Qur’an surat ar Rum :21, untuk merawat pernikahan itu adalah mawaddah dan rahmah, cinta dan kasih sayang. Yang ideal adalah jika antara suami dan isteri diikat oleh perasaan mawaddah dan rahmah sekaligus. Dalam bahasa Arab, mawaddah mengandung arti kelapangan dada dan kekosongan jiwa dari kehendak buruk. Jadi cinta mawaddah adalah perasaan yang mendalam, luas, dan bersih dari pikiran serta kehendak buruk. Sedangkan rahmah mengandung pengertian dorongan psikologis untuk melindungi orang yang tak berdaya. Rumah tangga yang direkat oleh mawaddah dan rahmah adalah pasangan dimana masing-masing secara naluriah memiliki gelora cinta mendalam untuk memiliki, tapi juga memiliki perasaan iba dan sayang dimana masing-masing terpanggil untuk berkorban dan melindungi pasangannya dari segala hal yang tidak disukainya.

Mawaddah dan rahmah itu sangat ideal. Artinya sungguh betapa bahagianya jika pasangan rumah tangga itu diikat oleh mawaddah dan rahmah sekaligus. Sesuatu yang ideal biasanya jarang terjadi. Bagimana jika tidak? Seandainya mawaddahnya putus, perasaan cintanya tidak lagi bergelora, asal masih ada rahmah, ada kasih sayang, maka rumah tangga itu masih terpelihara dengan baik. Betapa banyak suami isteri yang sebenarnya kurang dilandasi oleh cinta membara, tetapi karena masih ada rahmah, ada kasih sayang, maka rumah tangga itu tetap berjalan baik dan melahirkan generasi yang terpuji. Rahmah yang terpelihara pada akhirnya memang benar-benar mendatangkan rahmat Allah berupa mawaddah. Di samping mawaddah dan rahmah, Nabi menggaris bawahi dengan pernyataan bahwa pernikahan adalah amanah. Sabda Nabi wa akhaztumuhunna bi amanatillah, artinya, 'Kalian mengambil pasanganmu sebagai isteri (atau suami) adalah berdasar amanah Allah.'


Dalam Al Quran, amanah diterangkan oleh para ahli tafsir sekurang-kurangnya mengandung tiga arti, yaitu: (1) titipan, (2) tanggung jawab, dan (3) kepatuhan kepada hukum Allah. Amanah mengandung arti tanggungjawab dengan berlaku adil dan rasional seraya menyadari implikasi dan konsekwensi dari apa yang dilakukannya. Isteri adalah amanah Allah kepada suami, suami adalah amanah Allah kepada isteri. Keduanya harus komitmen kepada hak dan kewajibannya serta menyadari implikasi dan konsekwensi dari apa yang mereka lakukan. Kasus-kasus buruk dalam keluarga pada umumnya bersumber dari tidak dihiraukannya amanah ini.

Wassalam,


M. Agus Syafii

Friday, May 20, 2011

Mak Inai a.k.a Henna

Ari selasa malam aku notice kat tgn  Mia ada kotoran degil..
While aku tanya dia apsal...
Nie dia jawab..

Me : Dik nape hand adik tue kotor?
Mia : Mane..???
Me : Tu kat kuku..
Mia : Ooooo... pensel kaler..
Me : Nape kale kat kuku..??
Mia : Adik main 'perantin-perantin'.. (sambil sengeh2 ngan angkat2 kening)
Me : Gulp... Sape punye kaler..??
(anak aku main pengantin2..?? hadoooo...)
Mia : Teacher..

Aku start lah nak membebel.. Aku cakap ler.. x kisah nak main apa.. tapi jangan lah kotorkan tangan.. x wash bersih2, pas tue makan.. habis sume kuman masuk lam perut.. nanti sakit. Mia telopong & terkebil2 dengar aku cakap. Pas tue senang jer dia jawab...

Me : jfsgasghmc sefnaishfao (membebel)
Mia : Ooooo... OK..!!

Aik... senang tul dia jawab.. So,aku teringat aku ada simpan inai tiub kat umah.. Aku pun g bongkar bakul2 yang ada berhabuk tue.. jumpe..!! yeahhh...!!

So.... nie hasil nye...

Sebelom...




Tengok muka dia.. menahan hingus dari menjejes...






Tangan Mia Gebu.. ahaks!



Kaki pun nak inai jugak....!!!!


Sama-sama GIGIH nunggu inai..































































Jeng... Jeng.. Jeng..






Lepas siap... Bersihkan Mia...
Kasi makan ubat...
Pasang easy breath & tepek bedak tebal..
Tido.....


**sila abai kan peha aku yg gebu tue...

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Rasa Nak 'GIGIT'

Aku rasa nak GIGIT-GIGIT jer...





Pipi Mia yang gebu tue...
Gerammmmmmmm........

Cuba Kira

Perasan tak lagi sket jer kiter nak raya..
Kiter puasa 1 Ogos nie..
Pas tue lagi 30 ari plak Raya..

Ari nie dah 19 May.. Maknernye lagi 2 bulan 12 ari lagi nak Puasa..
Lagi 3 bulan 12 ari nak Raya...

Huwaaaaaaaa... ada ker orang nak jahit kan baju raya aku...???
Kain pun blom beli lagi...
Alaaaaarrrrrrrrr.....

Bonus...??? ada kah bahagian aku tuk tahun nie...
Adakan majikan aku akan bermulia hati nak bagi..??
Ya Allah... Limpahilah Rahmat dan rezekiMu pada ku..

Hutang Ramadan yg lalu blom dilunaskan...
Owh... Ya Allah.. berikan aku peluang melunas kan hutang lepas..

Pengurus Besar Rumahtangga dah perlu mengeluarkan budget..
Supaya senang Pengurus Rumahtangga menghasil kan list..
Pengurus Besar Rumahtangga perlu bersikap tegas..
Supaya Pengurus Rumahtangga berada dilandasan..

** Tapikan.. Yang cakap tahun nie dia tak nak buat baju raya.. or shopping.. katanya dia beraya Noma tak beraya.. Aku cuba paham apa yang dia rasa.. Hurmmm... May be aku bole 'ketis' budget shopping Yang tuk aku... Bole beli crown cam nie..



Ngeh.. Ngeh.. Ngeh..

MooD

Aku dah start nampak sawang lam blog nie...
Sawang..
Sesawang..
Sawang-sawang..

Aku malas nak update..

Huh.... penyakit nie dah mula datang kat aku...
Mood tetiba ilang...
Banyak gambar yang aku dh snap..
Tinggal nak dimanupilasikan jer...
Nak diolah-olah jer..
Nak ditepek-tepek gambar kat sini...

Tapiiiiiiiiiiiiii...........

~ MooD dah lari ~

:-(

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Mihunsooop Pama..

Dah lama tergendala aku nak makan mehoon soop Pama nie...
Arinie bukak2 cabinet nampak dia...


Apa lagi aku pun.... menuju ke pantry...
Jeng... Jeng... Jenggggggggggg...........

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Taraaaaaa......

Pama yang togel pun sedap...
Keadaan Pantry terkawal...





Pokok masih bernyawa..
Pencemaran...

Aku & Pama..





Aku lengkap berjaket dan stokin...
Opis aku nie aircon dia mmg setting ala2 obersea...
Alah... time2 salji turun...
Haaaa... gituw lah cuacanye..
Kadang-kadang rasa cam duduk lam iglu..
Huhhh....

** Pencemaran lain : Microwave... kusssss semangat...

Kemain kotor... Neway aku dh mintak tlg Kak Ida cleaner settle kan...

Mekasih yea kak...

Nuff Adv

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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Sistem Pembahagian Faraid

Faraid Law

Note: To use this table, the reader should first ascertain whether the deceased left a wife or husband, and if she or he survived, should look under the appropriate heading. Only in default of either should search be made under “sons and daughters”, “father and mother” and the rest, and then in the order given in the first margin. In each instance it is supposed that there are no nearer relations than those named.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

WIFE:

Wife and no relations ¼ to wife, ¾ to the Bait-ul-mal(1)

Wife and son (sons) 1/8 to wife, rest to son (sons equally)

Wife, son and daughter 1/8 to wife, 7/12 to son, 7/24 to daughter (2)

Wife, two sons and two daughters 1/8 to wife, 7/24 to each son and 7/48 to each daughter. (2)

Wife and one daughter 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter and 3/8 to Bait-ul-mal.

Wife and daughters 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters and 5/24 to Bait-ul mal

Wife, daughter and one son’s son (h.l.s.) 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter, rest to son’s son

Wife, daughters and one son’s son (h.l.s.) 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally, rest to son’s son

Wife, daughter, one son’s son and one son’s daughter 1/8 to wife, 1/3 to daughter, ¼ to son’s son and 1/8 to son’s daughter. (3)

Wife, daughter and son’s daughters 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughters equally and rest to the Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, daughters and one son’s daughter 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to Bait-ul-mal

Wife, daughter and three full brothers 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughters, 1/8 to each brother.

Wife, daughters and two paternal uncles 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and 5/48 to each uncle.

Wife, daughters and four true grandmothers 1/8 to wife, 2/3 to daughters equally and 1/6 to the grandmothers equally and the rest to the Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, son and father (h.h.s.) 1/8 to wife, ¼ to father, rest to son.

Wife, daughter and mother 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to mother and ½ to daughter. Rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Wife, daughters, father and mother 3/27 to wife, 4/27 each to father and mother, 16/27 to daughters (4)

Wife, father and mother ¼ to wife, ½ to father and ¼ to mother (5)

Wife, four full brothers and two full sisters ¼ to wife, 6/40 to each brother and 3/40 to each sister. (6)

Wife, four true grandmothers and two paternal uncles ¼ to wife, 1/24 to each grandmother and 7/24 to each uncle.

Wife, mother and true grandmother ¼ to wife, 1/3 to mother and the residue 5/12 to true grandmother.

Wife, mother, full sister, uterine brother and sister, consanguine brother and consanguine sister 3/15 to wife, 2/15 to mother, 6/15 to full sister and 4/15 equally between the uterine brother and uterine sister. The consanguine brother and consanguine sister get no shares. (7)

Wife, mother, two sons 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to mother and residue 34/48 equally to sons

Wife, daughter, two paternal uncles 1/8 to wife, ½ to daughter and the residue 6/16 to the uncles equally.

Wife, uterine sister, four sons of brother, son of uncle 1/8 to wife, 1/6 to uterine sister and the residue 28/48 to the sons of brother equally. Son of uncle gets nothing.

Wife, mother, sister 3/13 to wife, 4/13 to mother and 6/13 to sister. (7)

Wife, mother, 2 sisters 3/13 share to wife, 2/13 share to mother and 8/13 shares to sisters equally. (7)

Wife, two daughters, fathers mother 1/8 to wife, 2/3 equally to daughters, 1/6 to mother and the residue 1/24 to Bait-ul mal.



(1) Re Mutchilim [1960] M.L.J. 25.

(2) The daughters in such case being residuaries with the son.

(3) The son’s daughters being residuary with the son’s son.

(4) An example of the doctrine of aul or increase.

(5) The mother gets 1/3 of ¾ (that is after deducting the wife’s share). This follows a decision of the Caliph Umar.

(6) The brothers and the sisters are residuaries.

(7) An example of aul.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

HUSBAND:

Husband and no relation ½ to husband and balance to Bait-ul-mal

Husband and son (sons) ¼ to husband, rest to son (sons equally).

Husband, son and daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to son, ¼ to daughter.

Husband, two sons and two daughters ¼ to husband, ¼ to each son, 1/8 to each daughter.

Husband and one daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and rest to State.

Husband and daughters ¼ to husband, 2/3 to the daughters and rest to State.

Husband, daughter and one son’s son (h.l.s.) ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and rest to son’s son.

Husband, daughters and one son’s son ¼ to husband, 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/12 to son’s son (h.l.s.)

Husband and father ½ to husband and ½ to father.

Husband, daughter, one son’s son and one son’s daughter ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 2/12 to son’s son and 1/12 to son’s daughter. (8)

Husband, daughter and three full brothers ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, rest to brothers equally.

Husband, daughters and two paternal uncles ¼ to husband, 2/3 to daughters equally and 1/12 to uncles equally.

Husband, daughter and true grandmothers ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to grandmothers equally. Rest to State.

Husband, son and father (h.l.s.) ¼ to husband, 1/6 to father, rest to son.

Husband, daughter and father ¼ to husband, ½ to daughters, rest to father.

Husband, daughters and mother 3/13 to husband, 2/13 to mother, 8/13 to daughters equally. (9)

Husband, daughters, father and mother 3/15 to husband, 8/15 to daughters and 2/15 each to father and mother. (10)

Husband, daughter, mother, father, son’s son and son’s daughter 6/13 to father, 3/13 to husband, 2/13 to mother and 2/13 to father. The son’s son and son’s daughter are excluded. (10)

Husband, daughter and paternal uncle ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter and ¼ to paternal uncle.

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter and two full sisters ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter and 1/12 share equally to sisters. (11)

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter, one full sister and one consanguine sister ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter and 1/12 to full sister. Consanguine sister gets nothing. (11)

Husband, daughter, son’s daughter, two uterine sisters ¼ to husband, ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter. Residue to Bait-ul-mal.

Husband, daughter, father, mother, son’s son and son’s daughter 3/13 to husband, 6/13 to daughter, 2/13 each to father and mother. (10)

Husband, father and mother ½ to husband, 1/6 to mother, rest to father. (12)

Husband, father, mother and two daughters 3/15 share to husband, 2/15 to father, 2/15 to mother and 8/15 to daughters equally. (10)

Husband, mother and three full sisters ½ to husband, 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to sisters equally.

Husband, mother, full sister, consanguine sister 3/8 to husband, 1/8 to mother, 3/8 to full sister, 1/8 to consanguine sister. (10)

Husband, two full brothers and three full sisters ½ to husband, 2/14 to each bother and 1/14 to each sister.(13)

Husband, mother, full brother and two uterine sisters ½ share to husband, 1/6 to mother and the balance of 1/3 between the two uterine sisters and the full brother. (14)

Husband and daughters of two daughters ½ to husband and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Husband, mother, sister and grandfather Husband 3/9, mother 2/9 sister 4/27, father’s father 8/27. (15)

Husband, mother, grandfather, one consanguine brother, one or more uterine brothers. Husband ½, mother 1/6, grandfather 1/6, consanguine brother 1/6, uterine brother excluded. (16)



(8) The son’s son and son’s daughter are residuaries.

(9) Example of aul or increase.

(10) Examples of aul or increase

(11) In these cases the daughter and son’s daughter get their Quranic shares while the sister takes as residuary.

(12) The mother gets 1/3 of ½ (that is after deducting the husband’s share).

(13) The brothers and sisters are residuaries.

(14) This is the case of himariyya or musharaka. The full brother and the uterine sisters share the 1/3 share. See Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law p.135 and Nawawi Supra, p.250.

(15) This is the case of Al-akdariya – see Tyabji Muhammadan Law (3rd Edn.) p.874 and Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law p.128 and Nawawi p.253 Supra, (p.22 supra)

(16) This is the case of al-Malikia – see Fitzgerald p.128.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

SONS AND DAUGHTERS:

One son and no other relations All to son

One daughter ½ to daughter and rest to State.

Daughters 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to State

Sons and daughters Equally between all sons and daughters, but so that the share of each son is double that of each daughter.

One son and son’s son or son’s daughters All to son.

One son and father (or mother) 1/6 to father (or mother) rest to son.

One son, father and mother 1/6 to each father and mother, rest to son.

One daughter and son’s son ½ to daughter, rest to son’s son

One daughter, son’s son and son’s daughter ½ to daughter, 2/6 to son’s son and 1/6 to son’s daughter

Daughters and son’s son 2/3 to daughters equally, rest to son’s son

One daughter, one son’s daughter, and one full brother ½ to daughter, 1/6 to son’s daughter, rest to full brother.

Daughters, one son’s daughter and one full brother 2/3 to daughter and rest to full brother.

Daughters and son’s daughters 2/3 to daughter and rest to Bait-ul-mal (son’s daughters excluded unless there is a lineal male descendant of the same or lower degree).

Daughter and father ½ to daughter and ½ to father (1/6 as Quranic heir and 1/3 as agnatic heir).

Daughters and father 2/3 to daughters equally and rest to father

Daughters, son’s daughters and father 2/3 to daughter, rest to father. (17)

One daughter, father and mother ½ to daughter, 1/6 to mother, rest to father

One daughter, mother, four full brothers ½ to daughter, 1/6 to mother, 1/12 to each brother.

One daughter and mother ½ to daughter, ¼ to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Daughters and mother 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/5 to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Daughters, father, mother and son’s son 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/6 each to father and mother, nothing to son’s son there being no residue.

Daughters and four paternal uncles 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/12 to each uncle

Daughter (son’s daughter) and full (consanguine) sister ½ to daughter (son’s daughter) and ½ to full (consanguine) sister.

Daughters (son’s daughters) and full (consanguine) sisters 2/3 to daughters (son’s daughter), and 1/3 to full (consanguine) sister.

Daughters, four true grandmothers and six paternal uncles 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/6 to grandmothers equally (i.e. 1/24 each) and 1/36 to each uncle.

Two daughters, one consanguine sister, one brother’s son 2/3 to two daughters and 1/3 to sister. Brother’s son gets nothing

Two daughters, a son’s daughter and a son’s son 2/3 to daughters, 1/9 to son’s daughter and 2/9 to son’s son. (18)

Two daughters, a son’s daughter and a son’s son’s son 2/3 to daughters, 1/9 to son’s daughter and 2/9 to son’s son. (18)

Two daughters of a son, daughter of son’s son, son of son’s son’s son’ 2/3 to daughters equally, 1/9 to daughter of son’s son and 2/9 to son of son’s son’s son. (20)

Son’s daughter, daughter’s son and brother ½ share to son’s daughter and ½ share to brother. Daughter’s son gets nothing.

Son’s sons and son’s daughters (of same degree) Equally between son’s son and son’s daughters but so that the share of each of the former is double of each of the latter. (19)

Son’s daughters and son’s son’s son 2/3 to son’s daughters, rest to great-grandsons equally

Son’s daughter and son’s son’s daughter ½ to son’s daughter and 1/6 to son’s son’s daughter and the rest to the Bait-ul-mal. (20)



(17) There is a doubt whether the son’s daughters (who are excluded as Quranic heirs) are nevertheless entitled to take as residuaries together with the agnatic ascendant or collateral. See Fitzgerald Muhammadan Law, p.124.

(18) In all these cases, as there are two daughters the son’s daughter cannot inherit as Quranic heir. She therefore takes as an agnatic heir and shares the residu with the lower son’s son.

(19) The son’s daughter is a residuary with an equal son’s son.

(20) As there is a “nearer” daughter, the share of the son’s son’s daughter is 1/6 that is the remainder of the 2/3 share of daughters.

If a person dies leaving Division of Real and Personal Property

FATHER AND MOTHER:

Father and no other relations All to father.

Father and mother 2/3 to father, 1/3 to mother

Father, full brothers and sisters All to father.

Father, mother, three son’s daughters 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother and 2/3 to three son’s daughters in equal Shares.

Father, mother, daughter, four son’s daughters 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother, ½ to the daughter and 1/6 to the son’s daughters in equal shares.

Father, mother, two son’s daughters and son’s son’s daughter 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother and 2/3 to son’s daughters in equal shares. The son’s son’s daughter is excluded by the two son’s daughters.

Father, mother, son’s daughter, son’s son’s daughter 1/6 to father, 1/6 to mother, ½ to son’s daughter and 1/6 to son’s son’s daughter (the son’s daughter and son’s son’s daughter share the Quaranic share of two or more daughters).

Mother and no other relations 1/3 to mother and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Mother, and full brothers 1/6 to mother, rest to brothers equally.

Mother, full brother and uterine brother 1/3 to mother, 1/6 to uterine brother, rest to full brother.

Mother and full sisters 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to sisters equally and rest to Bait-ul-mal.

Mother, full sister, and consanguine brother and sister 1/6 to mother, ½ to full sister, rest to consanguine brother and sister but so that the former receives double the share of the latter.

Mother, full sisters, consanguine brother and sister 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to full sisters equally, rest as in preceding case.

Mother, two full sisters, a consanguine sister and a uterine sister (or brother) 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to equally among the sisters, and 1/6 to the uterine sister or brother (the consanguine sister is excluded by two full sisters).

Mother, consanguine sisters and uterine sister 1/6 to mother, 2/3 to consanguine sisters equally, 1/6 to uterine sister.

Mother and paternal uncles 1/3 to mother, 2/.3 to paternal uncles equally.





Makan Hati

Surah Al-Kautsar

Surah ini paling pendek, hanya mengandungi 3 ayat & diturunkan di Makkah dan bermaksud sungai di syurga. Kolam sungai ini diperbuat daripada batu permata nan indah dan cantik.

 
Rasanya lebih manis daripada madu, warnanya pula lebih putih daripada susu dan lebih wangi daripada kasturi.

Surah ini disifatkan sebagai surah penghibur hati Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. kerana diturunkan ketika baginda bersedih atas kematian 2 orang yang dikasihi iaitu anak lelakinya Ibrahim dan bapa saudaranya Abu Talib.

Pelbagai khasiat terkandung di dalam surah ini dan boleh kita amalkan:-

1 ) Baca surah ini ketika hujan dan berdoa, mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t. makbulkan doa kita.

2) Jika kita kehausan dan tiada air, bacalah surah ini dan gosok di leher, Insya'allah hilang dahaga.

3) Jika sering sakit mata, seperti berair, gatal, bengkak, sapukan air mawar yang sudah dibacakan surah ini sebanyak 10x pada mata.

4) Jika rumah dipercayai terkena sihir, baca surah ini 10x, mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t. bagi ilham pada kita dimana letaknya sihir itu.

5) Jika membacanya 1 ,000x rezeki kita akan bertambah.

6) Jika rajin membacanya, hati kita akan menjadi lembut dan khusyuk ketika menunaikan solat.

7) Jika orang teraniaya dan terpenjara membacanya sebanyak 71 x, Allah s.w.t. akan memberikan bantuan kepadanya kerana dia tidak bersalah tetapi dizalimi.



KungFu Panda

Lepas settle gulung & selamatkan Popia..
Aku bergegas ke Jusco Tebrau City tuk movie..
KungFu Panda..

Beratur punye beratur..
Full House..
Ngan raw paling depan..
Mendongak..
Tak pun tgk midnite..

Yang cakap tak bleh..
Tengak esok jer... (arini lah)

Sebelom kejadian.... (tak der tiket)



Selepas kejadian...
Kene blanjer Mia eskrim..
Tutup case ari nie..



Kami orang dewasa yang kecewa...
Terpaksa disembunyikkan rupanye..
:-(

Popia Cute

Bebual-bual ngan Shima kat Diva2..
Shima cakap nak jual Popia Goreng..
Terus rasa nak menjejes air liur aku...
Ngan pantas aku call Yang suh belikan sayur inti popia..
Termasuk sekali kulit popia..
Kalo tak aku gulung ngan kulit perut aku yang extravaganza nie..
Huh...

Blek kijer aku terus menuju ke dapor..
Masak inti popia.. gulung..
Masak sambal cicah..
Goreng...

Jemput tengok....


Melecet plak Popia Cute nih..
Penuh sangat filling nye..


Mission accomplish..
Burrrppp... Alhamdullilah...

Duit Karen

Tarif elektrik naik 1 Jun ini, 75 peratus tidak terjejas


30/05/2011 7:28pm



PUTRAJAYA 30 Mei – Kerajaan hari ini mengumumkan purata tarif elektrik akan dinaikkan sebanyak 2.23 sen kilowatt sejam (kWj) atau 7.12 peratus kepada 33.54 sen/kWj daripada 31.31 sen/kWj, berkuat kuasa Rabu ini, 1 Jun ini.

Ini adalah sebagai sebahagian daripada proses merasionlisasikan subsidi yang sedang dilaksanakan.

Bagaimanapun, kerajaan berkata, langkah berkenaan tidak akan menjejaskan 75 peratus atau 4.4 juta daripada 5.94 juta pengguna domestik yang menggunakan kurang daripada 300 kWj sebulan.

Ini bermakna pengguna yang menggunakan sehingga 300 kWj elektrik di mana bil mereka berjumlah RM77, tidak perlu membayar lebih.

Tarif elektrik dinaikkan kerana harga gas asli yang merupakan sumber utama penjanaan elektrik telah meningkat dengan ketara di pasaran antarabangsa.

Pengumuman berkenaan dibuat pada sidang akhbar bersama oleh Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Tan Sri Nor Mohamed Yakcop; dan Menteri Tenaga, Teknologi Hijau dan Air, Datuk Seri Peter Chin Fah Kui. – Bernama

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Belom lagi 1 June aku dh terperanjat nengok bil karen aku...!!!
Nie angkara bil pos bulan lepas ar nie.. main estimated2 jer..
Bulan nie... ?????
 


Aku dah bayar lah....!!!!

 
Huh...

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Aku Tanya.. Dia Jawab..

JANGAN MENGELUH ..........



Kita selalu Bertanya....................dan Al-Quran sudah menjawabnya.................



KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU DIUJI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," ("I am full of faith to Allah") sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar dan, sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg dusta."
-Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3


KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU TAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesua tu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216






KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286



KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA RASA FRUST?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Jgnlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan jgnlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu org2 yg beriman."
- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139



KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah (be fearfull of Allah The Almighty) kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan)."



KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk"
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45



KITA BERTANYA : APA YANG AKU DAPAT DRPD SEMUA INI?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari org2 mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga utk mereka... ?
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 111



KITA BERTANYA : KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?


QURAN MENJAWAB


"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain dari Nya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal."
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 129



KITA BERKATA : AKU TAK DAPAT TAHAN!!!


QURAN MENJAWAB


"... ..dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa dr rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dr rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."
- Surah Yusuf ayat 12


Kalu engko nak mengeluh lagi ............jom gi ngaji










Mia EXAM lagi

Semalam.. Ari nie.. Esok..
24,25 & 26 May 2011
Mia EXAM..
Semesta kedua katanya..

Expectation Momy..

* mestilah nak Mia dapat buat betul2
* mestilah nak Mia dapat 'full' mark
* mestilah nak Mia dapat first place
* mestilah nak yang best2 dari Mia

Reality perasaan Momy..

* apa kah Mia bole jawab exam...??
* paham ke Mia ngan soklan2 exam tue..??
* tau ke Mia yang dia betul2 tgh EXAM..??
* pandai ke Mia dengar arahan tanpa supervise dr teacher..??
* oh.. My Sponggy Big Baby.. hurmmm

People serounding says to Momy..

* let her have fun..
* what do you expect 4years kids yg blom cukup 4years bole beat 5 & 6 years kids..??
* let her learn the term of 'EXAM' only..
* "Doa" kan Mia..
* cutenye dgr Mia ada EXAM..
* kelakarnye... EXAM...
* hahahaha

So... What can I says and Expect..??

~ Semoga Allah permudahkan segalannya untuk Mia ~

[Semalam MakTok Lala datang,dia ckp dia doakan jugak tuk Mia senang jawab exam.. tapi pas tue dia gelak... erkhhh..]

Banyak yang Annoying but not 'THIS' one..

Tajuk yang sangat panjang..
Email aku selalu sangat disinggahi pelbagai email...
Antaranya berdebat pasal politik lah.. jawatan kosong lah.. sembang kosong lah..
Hurrrmmm...
Aku penah dapat yang sangat annoying pada aku..
Cam nie munyiknye...
'Saya nak beli aircon.. bole bg pendapat..'
Alololololo... rs aku nak tampa laju2 jer...

Tapi... ari nie aku suka this email...

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Seni Merawat Pernikahan


By : M. Agus Syafii

Ketika menjelang pernikahan, biasanya keluarga besar nampak heboh, sibuk menyiapkan pesta pernikahan, terpukau dalam gebyar pesta namun tenggelam setelah perjalanannya, pernikahan tidak terawat dengan baik. Akhirnya cinta itu memudar, kasih sayang menjadi hilang. Pernikahan menjadi hambar. Bahkan ada seorang suami yang bertutur, 'Mas Agus Syafii, diawal pernikahan saya sangat mencintai istri saya tetapi setelah menjalani 15 tahun pernikahan, saya lebih senang dalam kesibukan daripada berdua sama istri. Inilah salah satu contoh pernikahan yang tidak pernah terawat selama bertahun-tahun sehingga bukan hanya menjadi tidak indah lagi pernikahannya namun juga bisa saling melukai pasangan.

Menurut al Qur’an surat ar Rum :21, untuk merawat pernikahan itu adalah mawaddah dan rahmah, cinta dan kasih sayang. Yang ideal adalah jika antara suami dan isteri diikat oleh perasaan mawaddah dan rahmah sekaligus. Dalam bahasa Arab, mawaddah mengandung arti kelapangan dada dan kekosongan jiwa dari kehendak buruk. Jadi cinta mawaddah adalah perasaan yang mendalam, luas, dan bersih dari pikiran serta kehendak buruk. Sedangkan rahmah mengandung pengertian dorongan psikologis untuk melindungi orang yang tak berdaya. Rumah tangga yang direkat oleh mawaddah dan rahmah adalah pasangan dimana masing-masing secara naluriah memiliki gelora cinta mendalam untuk memiliki, tapi juga memiliki perasaan iba dan sayang dimana masing-masing terpanggil untuk berkorban dan melindungi pasangannya dari segala hal yang tidak disukainya.

Mawaddah dan rahmah itu sangat ideal. Artinya sungguh betapa bahagianya jika pasangan rumah tangga itu diikat oleh mawaddah dan rahmah sekaligus. Sesuatu yang ideal biasanya jarang terjadi. Bagimana jika tidak? Seandainya mawaddahnya putus, perasaan cintanya tidak lagi bergelora, asal masih ada rahmah, ada kasih sayang, maka rumah tangga itu masih terpelihara dengan baik. Betapa banyak suami isteri yang sebenarnya kurang dilandasi oleh cinta membara, tetapi karena masih ada rahmah, ada kasih sayang, maka rumah tangga itu tetap berjalan baik dan melahirkan generasi yang terpuji. Rahmah yang terpelihara pada akhirnya memang benar-benar mendatangkan rahmat Allah berupa mawaddah. Di samping mawaddah dan rahmah, Nabi menggaris bawahi dengan pernyataan bahwa pernikahan adalah amanah. Sabda Nabi wa akhaztumuhunna bi amanatillah, artinya, 'Kalian mengambil pasanganmu sebagai isteri (atau suami) adalah berdasar amanah Allah.'


Dalam Al Quran, amanah diterangkan oleh para ahli tafsir sekurang-kurangnya mengandung tiga arti, yaitu: (1) titipan, (2) tanggung jawab, dan (3) kepatuhan kepada hukum Allah. Amanah mengandung arti tanggungjawab dengan berlaku adil dan rasional seraya menyadari implikasi dan konsekwensi dari apa yang dilakukannya. Isteri adalah amanah Allah kepada suami, suami adalah amanah Allah kepada isteri. Keduanya harus komitmen kepada hak dan kewajibannya serta menyadari implikasi dan konsekwensi dari apa yang mereka lakukan. Kasus-kasus buruk dalam keluarga pada umumnya bersumber dari tidak dihiraukannya amanah ini.

Wassalam,


M. Agus Syafii

Friday, May 20, 2011

Mak Inai a.k.a Henna

Ari selasa malam aku notice kat tgn  Mia ada kotoran degil..
While aku tanya dia apsal...
Nie dia jawab..

Me : Dik nape hand adik tue kotor?
Mia : Mane..???
Me : Tu kat kuku..
Mia : Ooooo... pensel kaler..
Me : Nape kale kat kuku..??
Mia : Adik main 'perantin-perantin'.. (sambil sengeh2 ngan angkat2 kening)
Me : Gulp... Sape punye kaler..??
(anak aku main pengantin2..?? hadoooo...)
Mia : Teacher..

Aku start lah nak membebel.. Aku cakap ler.. x kisah nak main apa.. tapi jangan lah kotorkan tangan.. x wash bersih2, pas tue makan.. habis sume kuman masuk lam perut.. nanti sakit. Mia telopong & terkebil2 dengar aku cakap. Pas tue senang jer dia jawab...

Me : jfsgasghmc sefnaishfao (membebel)
Mia : Ooooo... OK..!!

Aik... senang tul dia jawab.. So,aku teringat aku ada simpan inai tiub kat umah.. Aku pun g bongkar bakul2 yang ada berhabuk tue.. jumpe..!! yeahhh...!!

So.... nie hasil nye...

Sebelom...




Tengok muka dia.. menahan hingus dari menjejes...






Tangan Mia Gebu.. ahaks!



Kaki pun nak inai jugak....!!!!


Sama-sama GIGIH nunggu inai..































































Jeng... Jeng.. Jeng..






Lepas siap... Bersihkan Mia...
Kasi makan ubat...
Pasang easy breath & tepek bedak tebal..
Tido.....


**sila abai kan peha aku yg gebu tue...

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Rasa Nak 'GIGIT'

Aku rasa nak GIGIT-GIGIT jer...





Pipi Mia yang gebu tue...
Gerammmmmmmm........

Cuba Kira

Perasan tak lagi sket jer kiter nak raya..
Kiter puasa 1 Ogos nie..
Pas tue lagi 30 ari plak Raya..

Ari nie dah 19 May.. Maknernye lagi 2 bulan 12 ari lagi nak Puasa..
Lagi 3 bulan 12 ari nak Raya...

Huwaaaaaaaa... ada ker orang nak jahit kan baju raya aku...???
Kain pun blom beli lagi...
Alaaaaarrrrrrrrr.....

Bonus...??? ada kah bahagian aku tuk tahun nie...
Adakan majikan aku akan bermulia hati nak bagi..??
Ya Allah... Limpahilah Rahmat dan rezekiMu pada ku..

Hutang Ramadan yg lalu blom dilunaskan...
Owh... Ya Allah.. berikan aku peluang melunas kan hutang lepas..

Pengurus Besar Rumahtangga dah perlu mengeluarkan budget..
Supaya senang Pengurus Rumahtangga menghasil kan list..
Pengurus Besar Rumahtangga perlu bersikap tegas..
Supaya Pengurus Rumahtangga berada dilandasan..

** Tapikan.. Yang cakap tahun nie dia tak nak buat baju raya.. or shopping.. katanya dia beraya Noma tak beraya.. Aku cuba paham apa yang dia rasa.. Hurmmm... May be aku bole 'ketis' budget shopping Yang tuk aku... Bole beli crown cam nie..



Ngeh.. Ngeh.. Ngeh..

MooD

Aku dah start nampak sawang lam blog nie...
Sawang..
Sesawang..
Sawang-sawang..

Aku malas nak update..

Huh.... penyakit nie dah mula datang kat aku...
Mood tetiba ilang...
Banyak gambar yang aku dh snap..
Tinggal nak dimanupilasikan jer...
Nak diolah-olah jer..
Nak ditepek-tepek gambar kat sini...

Tapiiiiiiiiiiiiii...........

~ MooD dah lari ~

:-(

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Mihunsooop Pama..

Dah lama tergendala aku nak makan mehoon soop Pama nie...
Arinie bukak2 cabinet nampak dia...


Apa lagi aku pun.... menuju ke pantry...
Jeng... Jeng... Jenggggggggggg...........

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Taraaaaaa......

Pama yang togel pun sedap...
Keadaan Pantry terkawal...





Pokok masih bernyawa..
Pencemaran...

Aku & Pama..





Aku lengkap berjaket dan stokin...
Opis aku nie aircon dia mmg setting ala2 obersea...
Alah... time2 salji turun...
Haaaa... gituw lah cuacanye..
Kadang-kadang rasa cam duduk lam iglu..
Huhhh....

** Pencemaran lain : Microwave... kusssss semangat...

Kemain kotor... Neway aku dh mintak tlg Kak Ida cleaner settle kan...

Mekasih yea kak...